HEAL THE HURT CHILD
Were you fortunate enough to see "If These Walls Could Talk 2" on HBO? The three tales of three generations of lesbians, from closeted to out, reminded Vivian and her partner of how awful things are if you're in the closet and how important it is to be out. "Each time we love ourselves enough to tell anyone who we are, we take part in changing this world and making it a better place to live for everyone."
NEWSWORTHY
National and international news of interest to LGBT readers, and a handy tip for LGBT couples who want to register their same-sex partnership on the Census 2000 form. Use the "unmarried partner" designation and check the appropriate gender boxes. Maybe in another 10 years we can be counted as individuals too!
CLOSER TO FINE
What can you do if you're concerned that your friend's girlfriend/partner is abusive to her? You may think it's none of your business. Yet, "thousands of Tucsonans showed up to march in solidarity with the U of A student who was stabbed on 4th Avenue. It's everyone's business when a member of our community is being abused--whether it is by a stranger or a lover."
LIFEMATTERS
A thinking, rational person, Michelle says her brain hasn't been functioning too well lately. Could it be because she's pregnant? "It takes everything in me just to get through a day as a functioning professional. There are many moments that I'm absolutely convinced of the truth of that thing my mother used to say to me--you know, how if my head wasn't screwed on tight I'd forget that too."
SPIRITUAL PATH
There is an inspiring afternoon coming up for local churchgoers. Call to Action, a group of progressive Catholics, and the Rainbow Interfaith Community have invited Sister Jeannine Gramick, a Philadelphia nun banned by the Catholic Church from continuing to minister to lesbians and gays, to speak at St. Francis of the Foothills. Date & time: Sunday, April 30, 2-5. $5 donation requested. Preregister at (480) 970-4288.
News & Features
PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES . . .
are still people, writes Loch Struan. Every able-bodied person needs to read her chronicle of how she is daily ignored, patronized, and humiliated. "Acknowledge our humanity. We are not invisible."
WOMEN'S BUSINESS
This month's featured businesswoman is counselor/therapist Diane Christian-Taylor. See Ruby for her specialties and how to get in touch with her.
LAVENDER FLIX
Shannon Wentworth on "Relax, It's Just Sex": "A stupid title and an even stupider cover have probably kept you from renting this gem." But grab it off the shelf anyway--someone has "finally made a fiilm that intelligently and realistically merges gay and straight content." All that and Jennifer Tilly too!
AIDS RIDE
Want to bike 560 miles with Ruby's news/design editor, Shannon Wentworth? This summer she'll bike from San Francisco to Los Angeles as part of California AIDS Ride 7, an annual fundraiser. You can help (and ride along in spirit) by making a pledge (see pledge form inside Ruby) and can follow Shannon's adventures on www.gay.com.
LESBIAN HEALTH FAIR
It's coming up on April 29, with 16 workshops, a lunchtime panel discussion, and a variety of vendors and informational booths. Where? At the Unitarian Universalist Church, 4831 E. 22nd St., 9:30-5. Donations of $1-$20 requested, sliding scale. See Ruby for the full schedule.
REP. STEVE MAY SPEAKS ON EQUAL RIGHTS
Openly gay Arizona state Representative Steve May, a Republican and an Army reservist, is battling the Army's "don't ask, don't tell" policy. Read about his keynote speech to Tucson's Community Business Association, in which he says, "Equal rights take work. We can't just wait for it to come. There's no time for any of us to rest."
GLBT COMMISSION BREAKS NEW GROUND
Roberta Ann Bottei reports that Tucson is one of the few U.S. cities that has a GLBT Commission established by the city government. It deserves your input and support. See Ruby for a detailed article about all the good work it's doing. Co-chair Arthur Padilla says, "The more people are involved, the more they are empowered."
EROTIC FICTION
"Like the Deserts Need the Rain," by Cathy Busha, is not about deserts, nor rain, but about a delicious morning in bed. You've got to read Ruby to know more!
MILLENNIUM MARCH ON WASHINGTON
The fourth LGBT march in the nation's capital takes place on April 30. Articles by Ellen DeGeneres and actor Mitchell Anderson explain why they'll be there. And our own Shannon Wentworth will be there too, coordinating gay.com's coverage. "Even if you can't go, you can monitor all the action via the Internet. It'll be just like you're there with me, only you won't be quite as close to Ellen." And read all about it in the May Rubyfruit.
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